KIRA GA MATA CYBERBULING DA AKE YIWA MATA A AREWACIN NIGERIA.

Da dadewa, mata a duk duniya suna fuskantar ƙalubale saboda jinsinsu. Kuma wannan ya fi muni a cikin al'ummar masu ra'ayin mazan jiya, inda dangantakar zamantakewa da siyasa ta kasance ta hanyar tsauraran dabi'u na addini. Ra'ayin da al'ummarmu ke yi wa mata na da ban tsoro da kuma kira da a yi taka tsantsan da daidaito musamman a wannan zamani na zamani da ke ba da damar lalata, jima'i da wulakanci a sararin samaniya kamar wani zafi a cikin busasshiyar daji. Najeriya ba a kebe ba. Tare da kabilu da al'adunta daban-daban, ita ma tana fama da wadannan illolin zamantakewa.

Arewacin kasar nan (wanda ake kira Arewa), musamman inda addinin Musulunci ya bunkasa, yana da ka'idoji, imani da akidu masu ra'ayin mazan jiya, wadanda ke taka rawa wajen yadda ake mu'amala da mata. Maza a cikin wannan al'umma 'a zahiri' suna da rinjaye kuma suna aiki yayin da mata ke ƙarƙashinsu kuma suna da hankali. Wannan dabi’a ta rashin fahimtar juna ta yi fice a kowane fanni na rayuwa a wannan yanki na duniya, wanda ya hada da sararin samaniyar Arewa.

Duk wani yunkuri na zamantakewa ko ra'ayi da mace za ta yi don ingantawa da inganta kanta yana haifar da muhawarar da ke tattare da zubar da jini ga mata da kuma nuna fushin kai a karkashin sunan 'yan sanda na ɗabi'a. Bugu da ƙari, mahimmancin dalili akan sararin samaniya shine maganin "maƙarƙashiyar shiru.

Popular Kannywood actress Rahama Sadau, for instance, was bashed for her choice to improve on her acting career and for featuring in a song “I Love You” with the Hip-Pop artist ClassiQ. For cuddling a male, she was expelled by the Motion Picture Practitioners’ Association of Nigeria (MOPPAN), Kano branch in 2016 as well as bullied for ‘forsaking’ her Islamic faith in America after she was invited by international artiste, Akon.

Ana ci gaba da cin mutuncin fitacciyar ‘yar jarida Kadaria Ahmed, tare da yin barazanar kisa da kuma sanya sunayen da ba a buga ba, saboda shawarar da ta yi na yaki da talakawa a jiharta ta Zamfara. Amma duk da haka, in ba tare da kokarin Kadaria ba, kisan gillar da aka yi wa ’yan kasa a garinsu, da a iya cewa bai ja hankalin gwamnatin tarayya da gwamnatin jihar Zamfara ba.

Matan Arewa, Fakhariyyah Hashim da Maryam Awaisu, suna fuskantar kakkausar suka saboda tallata shirin #ArewaMeToo, wani yunkuri na kare mata da yancin LGBTQ, inganta ilimin yara mata, magana kan cin zarafin mata da kuma yaki da cutar sankarau.